In accordance with Tom Landry, former Dallas Cowboys head coach and really smart guy, "An instructor is a person who informs you what you don't want to hear, so you can see what you don't wish to see, so you can be what you've always wished to be."
Basically, that's the simple truth. But, as humans, we make the distinction between simple and easy, and out of this comes the absolute most basic personal life narrative, the hard story.There are lots of variations on this story line. Like, there is the conventional if not generic,life is hard story, followed closely by the my life is harder than yoursstory. Such comparisons provide us with the glue of our humanity, theself-righteous position.Because, that are we without our self-righteous positions, for god's sakes?
Who, indeed? Who'd we be without our absolute certainty that we understand what we know. We all know what's right for anyone, the planet, the cosmos and beyond. Yet, we only don't know what's right for us. marriage and family therapist We look anywhere, everywhere for clues, input, feedback, scripts, models, evidence. We turn to the stars and phases of the moon, palm prints, crystal balls, tea leaves, television, movies, books, pop culture, the great book, magazines, news outlets, even our bank accounts to share with us who we are. This list is not even a just starting to the extent we go to get external clues that answer this seemingly benign question.
Our appetites for external resources on the subject of us are insatiable. We can't help ourselves. Ours is the face area that launched one thousand ships, and that's an understatement. This hunger has fueled the whole entertainment industry, you start with humanity itself.
My quest is to find my own, personal way, my own, personal internal and inherent truth, share my experience as an instructor and a human who has been gifted by having an capability to translate my own, personal journey into a more fluent language that may make transformation easy for more of us.
Please check back often, follow my journey, my thoughts and expect you'll find a method to become inner-referring and fluent in the language of you. I don't have your answers. I have my own, personal, but because we are all human, we could project and reflect for each other.
So, "an instructor is a person who informs you what you don't want to hear, so you can see what you don't wish to see, so you can be what you've always wished to be."
Who'd we be if we will learn to appear within to find what we have to hear to see who we are really? An instructor is just a teacher and a student simultaneously. Please be with me as I discover me.